Showing posts with label English. Show all posts
Showing posts with label English. Show all posts

Thursday, 11 September 2014

Blind


Yesterday, I had a visit to visual defect school. I really enjoyed visiting the school as well as felt very sad to see the blind children, but I had an awesome experience during this visit. The school situated at Jalan Genting Klang, Setapak.  It is a secondary school for the visually impaired in Malaysia, established in a year 1974. The school was started as a centre for visually impaired student around the country. Today there are more than 180 students in the school with all basic amenities. The students in the school are provided with food, education and health care. Apart from education they also learn vocational skill, life skill and knowledge of using computer and internet.

We were greeted by teachers over there, who are an amazing person with incredible passion to help those students with impaired vision. They are really passionate while doing their work even some of them did not have a proper training to deal with these special students. 

The first thing I learned when visiting the school is I should never give up or regret in life. Students over there thought me a lesson on how they could survive in this world and able to do thing like normal person does. In fact, they do not regret in their life. I could see they are really enjoyed the school with their friends. They are really helpful among themselves; the one with partial blindness helped those with total blindness as guidance. They are cheerful all the time. On our visit to the computer lab, I wonder how they use the computer. Computer applications and operation has become possible for them with the software Job Access with Speech (JAWS). This software allows the content on the screen to be read out to visual impaired students and thereby allows them to "read" the screen. Students can work on MS office and Internet without any problem except when they are dealing with a picture or diagram. They can surf the internet, reading the novels or news on internet, do assignments and print it on the Braille printer. Student thought us that knowledge is important. This really moved me very much.

Then I had met a nice, humble and nice Malay girl at the library. Her name is Syafiqah. She is one of the excellent students over there. I had a good conversation with her, discussing on her life before and her dream after this. She wanted to be a doctor, but because of her visual problem, she needs to change her dream! Oh, what I have done with myself. I had this opportunity in this field and yet, sometimes I don't give my very best. I felt ashamed to her. She also told to me that to gain something, we must endure the pain. Then, she told me that she aim to become a lecturer in linguistic. And I felt really happy to hear her spirit to achieve her dream.  She is so motivated even in her condition right now and happy by the friends around her.

Basically, these students thought me many lessons. This was a real eye opener for me as it taught me the realities and hardships of being blind. One should always grateful if you are born normal. It taught me to appreciate how important our sight is and yet we take it for granted. Thank to them. They really inspire me very much.

Monday, 8 July 2013

The Five Love Languages


#1: Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

#2: Quality Time

For those whose love language is spoken with Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

#3: Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

#4: Acts of Service

Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

#5: Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.

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What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! Millions of couples have learned the simple way to express their feelings and bring joy back into marriage: The 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman’s New York Times bestseller. You could test yourself here.

Monday, 1 July 2013

Human Brain Analysis - Man vs. Woman



1. MULTITASKING

Women - Multiple process
Women's brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.

Men - Single Process
Men's brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.

2. LANGUAGE

Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That's why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 year old boy.

3. ANALYTICAL SKILLS

Men's brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.

4. CAR DRIVING

While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fast as possible. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.

5. LYING

When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Woman's super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Men's brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.

So guys, do not lie face to face.  :)

6. PROBLEMS SOLVING

If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.

7. WHAT THEY WANT

Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc... But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc...

8. UNHAPPINESS

If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.

9. SPEECH

Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.

10. HANDLING EMOTION

Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking

Tuesday, 25 June 2013

Lifestyle of...



Lifestyle of Prophet Muhammad SAW

Talk softly,
Walk humbly,
Eat sensibly,
Breathe deeply,
Sleep sufficiently,
Dress properly,
Intract politely,
Act fearlessly,
Work patiently,
Think truthfully,
Believe correctly,
Behave decently,
Learn practically,
Plan orderly,
Earn honestly,
Spend intelligently,
Sacrifice regularly,
Worship dedicatedly,
Serve parents happily,
Respect neighbours appropriately ...

How can such a man be insulted?